My Aching Heart
Friendship is like a handful of sand that u grasp in your hand. Hold on to it carefully for if it slips past your hand, that handful of sand will never feel the same again. True? I find it absolutely true.
I was singing K-Lunch today with Fabian, and was singing the Stef and Tanya duet, Yuan Dian. While singing, I suddenly broke down crying. I thought of how fragile a friendship between two best pals could be. All because of a guy. Whom was not worth the sacrifice of what was such a long and deep friendship.
Will you fall in love with someone your best friend fancy? Will the thought even surface in your mind in the first place? If it did, will you take any action? Many people have different views on this.
"别对我抱歉别总觉得对我亏欠
现在他在你的身边就对他好一点"
Isn’t true friendship about understanding? Isn’t true love about letting go and allowing him to find greater happiness. Basically, it is no use crying over spilled milk. Don’t apologise to me, don’t feel that you owe me anything. Now that you are beside him, just treat him better.
"我应该就走开就算感情还在
我应该就放开对他不再依赖
忘了曾有过的片段
这是属于你们的未来"
I should walk away, even if there are still feelings within me. I should let go, and not depend on him anymore. Forget the past or what could have have happened. This belongs to both of your future. Sounds noble doesn’t it? But few people is capable of doing this.
I believe that when it comes to a matter of relationship, nothing is ever right or wrong. It is all a matter of the heart. In such cases, are the parties willing to empathise, and step into each other’s shoes, and not put the blame on each other?
Time is capable of healing all wounds. It is just a matter of how deep the pain is and how long time needs. Even though the wound will heal one day, but a painful scar will be left there forever.
You have fell down and climbed up again. Isn’t it good that you have left that guy and found a better catch? I am sincerely happy that you have found someone that you love truely now, and I hope that he will be the ONE for you.
You have gave up your friendship for that guy, only to let go in the end. I know that you are hurt. Don’t keep everything inside and look strong. I know that deep down inside, you are in pain.
Our friendship is something that I cherish deeply.
